[Originally at The Pros and Cons of a Wedding Day First Look (From Real Brides & Photographers!) by Jaimie Mackey]
First looks may not be the newest trend in wedding photography, but they’re still a hot topic. The time-honored practice of not seeing the bride until she walks down the aisle is more of a good-luck superstition, and many couples are still sticking to it, while others are opting for a first look for reasons that range from easing nerves to making sure they can actually get to cocktail hour.
As your wedding day approaches, you’re probably wondering whether a first look is right for you, so we’ve asked some of the pros (i.e. fantastic wedding photographers!) to fill us in on what they think, how it works, and whether it’s something you should consider.
Pros
CAROLINE LIMA PHOTOGRAPHY
“Couples should consider the first look for more than just the practicality of timing,” says Caroline Lima. “It’s a great decision for couples who want to spend some quiet time together before the ceremony. If you’re nervous, having a first look and seeing your partner is a great way to ease that feeling.”
“Personally, I loved having a first look at my own wedding,” remembers Ashley Sawtelle. “It gave us a moment before the day officially started to connect with one another and take a deep breath.”
Of course, practicality can’t be ignored. “A first look enables you to take a lot of your photos before the ceremony so you can get to cocktail hour and your reception sooner,” Lima says.
“A first look definitely does not spoil the ceremony,” says Carrie Patterson. “You’ll be overwhelmed with emotion no matter what, so if you want to see your partner, don’t skip it.”
You’ll get some privacy. “It’s a whirlwind once guests arrive, and having a first look gives you and your partner a few moments together before all of your family and friends surround you,” Sawtelle says.
See the full pros and cons at https://www.brides.com/story/pros-and-cons-of-a-wedding-day-first-look or read more cool stuff from Dow Oak Events